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As many of you already know, my grandma passed yesterday. She was in her 100th year so it was a long and eventful life. I appreciate all the sympathy notes everyone has left for me.

Here is a picture of me and her from her 99th birthday party last year.

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I can't say she was particularly supportive of my writing, more like indifferent though she would ask about it from time to time. However, she was tickled this summer when she learned I wrote her into a scene with two of her high school friends (She did graduate high school, one of the few in generation who did, in my family that is. I have her class ring which brings up more questions than it answers. It has 3 pyramids on it as Midway PA used to be called Little Egypt. Why and when/why it was changed are things I need to research). Now, she had no idea what I write exactly. I figured she wouldn't ever read it (she was not a reader) and it made her happy to think she was in the story. And she is. By Name.

It all started with this picture (this is not my grandma. I have no idea who they are. It's from the Phipps historical timeline). I was researching the Phipps Conservatory for my 1930s demon hunter novel Soldiers of the Sun.

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It was then that I realized that my grandmother (who would have been 100 this year) could have been in Pittsburgh to see my demon hunters, Caleb, Agni & Temple. The Phipps would have been something they could have taken the train in to see and when I asked her she said she had but she couldn't remember how old she was at the time.

So I wrote her in. I had planned to read her the few paragraphs when the book came out (it's due out around her 100th birthday) but that is not to be. So later this year if you see an Assunta in the story, that's my grandmother and Guiseppina, who'll be a major character, is the name of Assunta's mother, my great grandmother.

Have a little music from the story's setting, 1932. My grandmother would have been seventeen and probably would have been dancing to this sort of thing.




Date: 2015-01-12 01:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
I'm glad she liked knowing she'd been memorialized in your novel.

That's cool you have her high school ring. I have Mom's. Not quite the same thing.

Date: 2015-01-12 02:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
I am too

Well Mom has it (and her own) but eventually it's all mine and I'm almost the end of the line...

Date: 2015-01-12 02:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
Yeah, that is kind of sad.

Date: 2015-01-12 02:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
Yeah. I do have 4 younger cousins. Doubt any of them would give a crap about any of it unless they thought they could hock them. None of them seem sentimental. Money hungry on the other hand

Date: 2015-01-12 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
That's very sad, but my niece and nephews are the same way. I know the niece is expecting to eventually get all of Mom's jewelry. No one cares about the furniture that's been in the family for three generations or longer, or the things Dad made for me by hand.

Date: 2015-01-12 06:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
And this is why Mom needs a will to get things to where SHE wants them to go. My parents do. Lucky Uncle no, and I'm betting my mom's sister's side of the family will be disappointed (well two know but the estranged one doesn't and grandma is the only one he sucked up to) because NO grandkid gets a thing from grandma.

Date: 2015-01-12 12:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
You might want to point out to Lucky Uncle about how Zog's lack of a will went. Considering what all I was supposed to get and didn't.

Date: 2015-01-12 04:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
I HAVE and he has a shit ton more than Zog. The problem is his wife wants only her brother's kids to get stuff and none of Lucky Uncle's sisters kids (i.e. me) to get it. It's ridiculous.

My dad's brother and his wife are the same but I think they finally are getting one since I'm supposed to be the executor and I know they want my grandmother's house to be sold and divided between me and my brother and her kids from her first marriage (which was the bone of contention, Uncle didn't want them having his mom's house) I know I'm getting the mineral rights (hello frackers, I guess you're answering to me eventually)

Date: 2015-01-13 12:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
...I kinda think it's his decision where his stuff goes, but I know how that goes.

Aieee, aieee.

Date: 2015-01-13 03:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
yeah so I have two sets of aunts/uncles with one partner wanting stuff to go to only their side. head desk

Date: 2015-01-14 12:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-little-dog.livejournal.com
Yeah, definitely time to make wills. D:

Date: 2015-01-14 12:54 am (UTC)

Date: 2015-01-12 03:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com
What a cool idea! And have to say that I hadn't realized how gorgeous you are. I'm sure she delighted in you for many reasons.

Date: 2015-01-12 06:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
Thank you very much. I appreciate it. (I just wish that lovely head of hair I have in this was real...)

Date: 2015-01-12 12:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mamculuna.livejournal.com
But I'm sure the face is real!

Date: 2015-01-12 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
Yes the face is still real as is that rather excessive butt but maybe that can shrink. If it shrank as fast as my hair falls out, I'd be golden, bald but golden.

Date: 2015-01-12 04:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiramaru7.livejournal.com
I think that's awesome your granny's in your book! I bet she woudl have loved the passage too, had you had a chance to read it to her. <3

Date: 2015-01-12 06:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
Thanks so much! I appreciate it

Date: 2015-01-12 08:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiramaru7.livejournal.com
You're welcoem! :D

Date: 2015-01-12 11:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 0-mother-0.livejournal.com
I love that you included her in the story - what a neat thing to do and a great way to honor her memory (great music too!)

Date: 2015-01-12 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jana-denardo.livejournal.com
Thank you. It is.

The music is interesting

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